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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 18:34

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

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6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

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56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

*** Questions About Me ***

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32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

Family Relation Age Play

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These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past
 it got you two here together


87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Why did Donald Trump and Melania Trump sleep in different rooms?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

What are the reasons behind the belief that paper straws are harmful to the environment, despite being recyclable and biodegradable?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

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Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

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Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

Why are Korean female leads so angry all the time?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

Is 1500 calories enough for a 5’3 15-year-old who is non-active?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

In what circumstances might a chaperone be appropriate for a medical examination?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

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32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

How old are you? Male or Female?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

What is your favorite position? Why?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

Get this wrong and this could mean the end
 :-) some funny, some not


25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

52~ What are your hobbies?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

Would you read them together?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC
)

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

Any that are a turn off?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

Nothing too Serious

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

62~ Have you used adult toys?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

Any that are a turn off?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

I would allow you to do it
 What would you do to me?

29- How superstitious are you?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

*** Random Questions ***

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship
 You can learn a lot about the other person
 and yourself


14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3


If yes, what?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

*** What’s Your Favorite
? ***

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

39~ What are your love languages?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

Please share Did you stop?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

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33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

The Ice Breaker Questions

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment


48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything
 Shave me


* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

If you win, what will you make them do?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)